Let's open this session with a good song, from Ahmad Dhany arrangement, and Dewi-dewi style..
Tatap matamu bagai busur panah... yang kau lepaskan ke jantung hatiku... meski kau simpan, cintamu masih... tetap nafasmu wangi hiasi suasana...saat kukecup manis bibirmu...
Cintaku tak harus.. miliki dirimu.. meski perih mengiris.. iris segala Janji
Aku berdansa di ujung gelisah... diiringi syahdu lembut lagumu... Kau sebar benih lamun jiwamu... namun kau tiada menuai buah cintaku... Yang ada hanya.. sekuntum rindu.. / Malam-malam ku bagai malam seribu bintang yang terbentang di angkasa bila kau disini, tuk sekedar menemani tuk melintasi wangi yang slalu tersaji di satu sisi hati
Do you see the woman with glasses in right? Hm.. what do you think? I am gonna wearing glasses? No... no.. I am wearing glasses.. but mostly with contact lenses. HEY! that's not the point!
I feel like I'm facing difficult times recently, esp in facing many people annoying. But what should I do then? Get mad and sigh? Complaining situation and angry all the times? That's not the solution.
Karakter orang emangnya beda2 kan yaaa.. dan my Dad has ever said " Nabi yang super baik aja masi ada yang benci sama dia" So, kita yang sudah berbaik-baik pun gak bisa mengharapkan akan menerima perlakuan balik yang sama. Terus? mosok musti balas dendam cih? Well, i'm not nabi or that perfect human. I'm just someone who try to do the best in everything and breath and act with love. Terlalu hiperbolis? maybe... target memang kadang gak bs smua diterapkan. Teori memang ga smua bs jalan dlm dunia nyata. And what do you learn?
1> Kenali karakter orang. Ada sisi positif, ada sisi negatif. Jangan cuma melulu mikirin sisi negatif dari orang lain. Coba gali dan pelajari sisi positifnya juga. Gunanya apa sih? Ya supaya kita bertahan menghadapi org tersebut. At least, she or he has something good to be learned. At least, he or she is POSITIVE.
2> Lebih jauh lagi, kenali like and dislike orang. Kita mungkin akan balik menunjukkan like dan dislike kita secara personal. Tp sekali lagi, menguasai dan dikuasai dlm pergaulan itu hrs seimbang. Means, ga bs kita mlulu yg pengen dimengerti, tp kita jg musti bs menyesuaikan dan mengerti orang lain. Itu strategi. Itu seperti adaptability utk bertahan. Ada saatnya kita mengeluarkan komando, tp ada waktunya kita mengalah. Just find the best timing for everything.
3> Tulus. Spread the love. Kalo cuma mikir untung rugi, guna or gak guna, Yea... kita akan bersikap gak adil sama orang2 yg 'kita pikir' gak ada value addednya. THAT'S ALL WRONG! Seharusnya belajar dari anak2 yang lugu dalam melakukan sesuatu. It's not about gaining something from others, but about spreading love and try to make your surrounding comfortable. And that is what we will give to God, and to any people. Be nice, be kind, be lovely.. Trus gmn klo kita masih jg dpt perlakuan sentimen? Keep nice, keep kind, and conquer the situation!
I choose the title "conquer everything" It's about conquer your problem, conquer situation, with strategy, with briliant ratio, but also with sincerely love.
and May God will help. amin.
ps. I learn so much from many teachers surround me. Thanks all.. thanks God. --- Jimbaran Bali, Saturday afternoon ---
